I haven’t had a chance to write about our experiences with family proclamation week. Trekky man and I have really grown to cherish our time with the kids. (I say this now as the children are behind me wrestling and screaming so loud I can hardly think!) Did I say cherish???? Yes, yes I did! We really did cherish these past 2 weeks. These past 2 weeks helped me realized that “good family relationships don’t happen by accident they happen intentionally.” We’ve always wanted to have and tried to have good relationships with the children. But it seemed it was so easy to allow things to get in the way. I needed a break, needed to clean this up, had to get dinner done, clean the table off, etc… I’ve discovered that when we’ve put our family first all these other things come into place. Dinner got done with their help, chores got done …with their help,….and I discovered that I wasn’t so in need of a “break” because we were genuinely enjoying our time together. We’ve had lots of fun together and have had some really faith promoting experiences together.
Although having lots of fun together was a big thing for us I also realized that if I want my children to develop faith in their Lord, and gain testimonies of their own we had to have those teaching experiences in our home. I couldn’t expect them to learn and grow just from attending church weekly. It was more important for those experiences to come from having the spirit in our home. I recognize the great responsibility that lies on the shoulders of parents all over the world to teach, inspire, and show our children how to be good people. My children are a great blessing to me. I have learned and grown much from my experiences with them. I’m grateful for the times I’ve had with them thus far and look forward to many more wonderful moments with them. Family proclomation week has become a tradition for us. One that will occur several times a year. There were also several things that we did that will become weekly or monthly traditions as well. I’m not saying things went so perfectly, or that they were easy because they weren’t. We wanted this to be a wonderful experience for all of us so we put forth the effort, and it paid off in the end. It was well worth the sacrifices and effort. Time with our family was as that one commercial says: “PRICELESS!”
I love your post! You stated your thoughts so wonderfully! What an inspiration you and your family are.
By: Jennifer on December 1, 2008
at 12:32 am
We also enjoyed Family Proclamation Week, though ours wasn’t as big of a deal. See, with having only little ones at home, everything you do is a family thing. We did make a little effort though, to do more activities with each other. I also cherish my children (though sometimes it is hard) and I love being a Mommy. Thanks for your thoughts and sharing them! I love my “Teacher”!
By: Stacey on December 1, 2008
at 1:47 pm
Wonderful… thanks for sharing! Both you and Trekky man’s talks were soooo great. Thanks for being such an inspiration, but still being real and down to earth enough to admit that life isn’t always perfect! I love that about you!
By: nicole on December 1, 2008
at 9:11 pm
What a wonderful post! And your talk in church was amazing.
You have such a fun family and we love you guys!
By: Jennifer on December 2, 2008
at 1:29 pm
Hi, I was hoping that you are the woman I met at the Relief Society Enrichment yesterday… If not, then oops sorry. But, if you are I wanted to tell you thank you for making me feel comfortable at the table. You are very nice and easy to get along with. And it was funny because when I first saw you (judging on looks….) i thought she seems nice maybe i could get to know her better. And you are nice. And I do hope we could become friends. I’m really shy until you get to know me and so I just wanted to tell you thank you.
By: Stephanie on December 3, 2008
at 4:42 pm
You guys both had wonderful talks…I took notes!You also have a great outlook on how to enjoy family time. I hope we can find time to have fun our kids too. I find we make plans, but have a hard time sticking with them when work schedules change. I hope to find a good compromise to not leaving out my hubby and still being able to go forward with what we plan. I’d love any tips you have!
By: shannon on December 8, 2008
at 8:21 pm